...scarlett's staring out the window, overlooking the whole city, like shes looking for someone thats miles away...my "location" is "miles away from Charlotte"...i thought it worked well together...is she looking for me?.... I WISH!!
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Yeah, I recall reading somewhere that people you know expect you to act in a certain way, and when you defy that expectation, you make them uncomfortable. Building the walls is a form of maintaining that comfort-level, but at the same time, it can be very damaging. That was Lauren's reaction to Charlotte during the phone call. Lauren didn't know what to make of Charlotte's breakdown, and rather than address it, she chose to ignore it completely.jml2 wrote:habits and expectations form and certain walls build themselves with people we've known for a long time. They get in the way of that kind of honest self-expression and they don't exist with a fresh new person.
Wow, 2 jml's in one post ! I created my avatar by cutting and pasting frames from the dvd, resizing and cropping them, then converted the frames to gif format and used Alchemy Mindworks' GIF Construction Set Professional to assemble them into a moving animation. A very labor-intensive project, but a labor of love.jml98 wrote:ps: hull i like ur avatar image...whered u get it? anyone know how to make a "moving image" or wutever like hull's icon...?
I once had sexual feelings for a woman I worked with, and I found it hard to tell my wife. Does that mean I cheated on my wife? By the way, I did tell her.Guest wrote:For me, she did cheat on John. There is a simple test to find it out: it will not be easy for her to tell him the story with Bob, to describe it honestly as it was more than a companionship or even more than friendship. The same is with Bob. Do you imagine Bob telling his wife of the whole thing?
If I reacted poorly to her confession, then it's not like I trusted her to begin with. If she says nothing happened, why would I doubt her?Witness wrote:I can only assume that this would produce a crack in your united family, so was it needed? It would surely hurt your other half and we don't know if you'll ever be able to trust her as fully as before.
We just recently had our first kid after being married for 13 years, and my wife was 38 when she gave birth for the first time. Any 50 year old can adopt a baby, and from what I've heard in Hollywood (where Bob works) it seems quite common to do so.sooner77 wrote:The whole Bob/Lydia thing was poorly constructed by Sofia Coppola in my opinion. Bob is probably in his 50's and has been married for 25 years, but that one kid on the phone sounds awfully young. So unless Lydia was 15 when they got married Coppola was clumsy there.
I tend to agree that you are probably rightLipYourStocking wrote:normal married couple
Oh yeah.. the singerSilk wrote:I tend to agree that you are probably rightLipYourStocking wrote:normal married couple
(though it does depend on how you see things)
He still cheated on Lydia you know.